day-of-year 270: heartbroken

[radhardened]

(from my flickr photostream https://www.flickr.com/photos/missioncontrol/)

Comments

[brainwane]

My condolences. Want to talk about it?

[radhardened]

I'm not sure what to say about it. It was a long and complicated relationship, the subject of much therapy on my end. I am sad.

[graydon2]

Gentlest condolences.

[radhardened]

Thank you. Although it wasn't my choice, it was largely due to my behavior, so... I feel kind of terrible as a person.

[selki]

I hope you can focus on something good you can do, give yourself time, or otherwise come to some peace with it.

[graydon2]

what I know of you says that you are a good person, not at all terrible. but I know the feeling.

sometimes I find it helpful to remember that two good people can have a bad pattern of interaction, and it can say nothing about the goodness of either of them to acknowledge the badness of the pattern, or be defeated by it.